Travel with us to the Maldives

  • By Cheska & Doug Kramer
  • 27 Aug, 2016

Our adventures as a family are always something we all look forward to. No work, just our kids and us! Our go-to beaches in the Philippines have always been Bohol, Boracay and Palawan, and they never fail to still amaze us every single trip! But it’s always been a dream of Chesca and I to go to the beautiful Maldivian islands. And how can we not dream of such paradise! We read about it through our favorite Hollywood celebrities, through those Instagram pages that make us want to teleport right away, and of course from featured websites that describe it as something that should be part of every persons bucket list.

photo credits to the owner
We were first discussing as a couple if it would be just the two of us to make the trip. It was unanimous. Heck no, we always travel with our kids! We want to experience every single beautiful moment of our lives with Kendra, Scarlett, and Gavin. We were already picturing ourselves walking in the powdery sand while thekids just run around and swim. Excitement was an understatement! When we showed the kids pictures of the gorgeous island, and with our own private pool facing the Indian Ocean, the kids couldn’t help but ask about it every single day leading up to our dream vacation.

Our destination, Dusit Thani Maldives !

It would be a long haul since the trip involved flying to Singapore for almost 4 hours, then not counting the long layover, the connecting flight to Malè was another 4.5 hours! Once you have arrived at the capital of Malè, you’ll have two options; either you’ll take a domestic flight to Dharavandhoo airport for another 30 mins, then speed boat to your resort/island for a short 15 mins or…. take a seaplane from Malè directly to your island. We took option 2 since we heard it would be part of the experience seeing all the islands on the seaplane! Minus the obvious turbulence you’d encounter from a tiny plane, it was beautiful! Seeing the atolls from a high vantage point, you could really see why it’s one of the top beach destinations in the world! Take note, in the Maldives, it’s one resort per island! The privacy and exclusivity means you’ll step on Virgin Islands and not overpopulated with other resorts and businesses.

And it did not disappoint! When we finally got to Dusit Thani , the first thing you’ll notice is how clear, blue and fresh the waters are! The kids wanted to jump in right away! The white sands were glaringly gorgeous! Definitely too much beauty to behold in one standing. And you know what, our dream vacation was only about to begin!

We wanted to experience what the resort had best to offer. For the first 3 days, we stayed at the family beach villa with private pool. When we travel as a family, we always make sure to have two rooms. One for the kids with ate yaya jean and ate yaya jenny. And one room for the king and queen.  (watch the full video below for the tour in our family beach villa)   

As a couple, this is our way of still enjoying our time together like a honeymoon! We have to keep the fire burning! But you know what's the cute thing, the kids can’t help but still crawl beside us every single night! No miss! Hahaha!

So for the following days, we told Kendra, Scarlett, and Gavin the plan was simple. Swim and play!
While walking along the shores of Maldives, we saw the beautiful infinity pool facing the beach. It’s a must spot for a selfie! Absolutely a stunning view! It didn’t take long before we all decided to take a dip in the ocean! One word to describe it, fresh! The sand was so soft; our feet would sink in! We could already see how hard it would be to leave this island. Must enjoy some more!
 The kids jumped in right away, while Chesca and I decided to enjoy a glass of wine before joining them. 
Scarlett though, still had a little complaint about her tiny wound touching the sand. Too cute, look at her face while stepping on my back! Hahaha!

One of the more memorable moments during the trip was when it started to rain after our breakfast. Chesca said, “hon, why don't we let the kids enjoy running around under the rain.” I happily obliged! We all had so much fun running after each other!

The laughter is infectious! The happiness contagious! 🌴💦

When it rains in paradise we go out and play!🌴💦

We even witnessed a tortoise laying her eggs. What an experience!

For our last 4 days, we transferred to the two-bedroom ocean pavilion with pool. Now this is what Maldives is all about! The room had its own personality! The pictures and video tour can't even do justice to how perfect it was. We were situated at the rightmost part of all the ocean cottages, so we had an unimpeded view of the crystal clear blue ocean!

Experiencing Maldives through Dusit Thani   has been amazing.

The food was top notch! 

the treetop spa;  
the marine life in the maldives! Well taken cared of by  Dusit Thani Maldives   !
kids activities in the island;
the hospitable and accommodating staff, Thanks so much to Laura Henry and Leani Von Tonder for making everything possible.

biking around the island;

 the infinity pool; 

walking along the pristine white sands,
  to swimming in the fresh ocean water! It is absolutely paradise!

To think we only dreamt of having a vacation like this, and now we were living it. Unbelievable and unforgettable! Truly blessed and thankful to God for every single blessing he has bestowed upon us. Cheers to more #TeamKramerTrips!

Watch our full video #TeamKramerTripsMaldives!!!   :) 
The next adventure coming soon! :)
By Cheska & Doug Kramer 13 Sep, 2016

How do people define being rich? Some would quantify it with the amount of material possessions. For others, fame, position and power equates to being rich. For Chesca and I, knowing our purpose on earth and who we live for gives us peace of mind and contentment. But contentment never stopped us from working hard and striving to reach our dreams. Especially to secure the future of Kendra, Scarlett, and Gavin.

While we believe that we shouldn’t be satisfied with what we've achieved, and that improvement is part of growth, we also should not take for granted including the Lord in our plans. For everything we do on earth, we are made accountable to Him. Everything we have belongs to God.

Worldly wealth never satisfies! We can recall the times we would want to buy something new. The excitement is always there. When you stare at it and use it, happiness creeps in. Even when our kids buy their favorite toys, we would warn them that later on they would want more. It’s a natural reaction. That is why we always teach our kids to value family and their relationship with Jesus, and not what the world can offer. Days and weeks go by, then we find ourselves wanting more, or something new. When does it end? Jim Carey the Hollywood comedian who earns millions of dollars per movie, said it best, “I think everybody should get rich and famous and do everything they ever dreamed of so they can see that it’s NOT the answer.”

By Cheska & Doug Kramer 27 Aug, 2016

Our adventures as a family are always something we all look forward to. No work, just our kids and us! Our go-to beaches in the Philippines have always been Bohol, Boracay and Palawan, and they never fail to still amaze us every single trip! But it’s always been a dream of Chesca and I to go to the beautiful Maldivian islands. And how can we not dream of such paradise! We read about it through our favorite Hollywood celebrities, through those Instagram pages that make us want to teleport right away, and of course from featured websites that describe it as something that should be part of every persons bucket list.

By Cheska & Doug Kramer 03 Aug, 2016
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By Cheska & Doug Kramer 22 Jul, 2016

When or how do we train our kids when it comes to manners? Do we just tell them about it? Do they just pick it up from us and apply it naturally? How old do I even start teaching them?

As parents it is important that we teach our children! It is our job! it's an entitlement that God has given us parents to raise obedient and well-mannered kids. But we also must remember just like in everything we need to be intentional and that includes raising our children. What does being intentional mean? Being intentional means planning and committing our time to teach them so we can be effective, that way something purposeful comes out of it. 

It is our obligation as parents to teach and train our children as they grow up. But we cannot just merely tell them what to do. You have to tell them and apply it every day for them to see. Live it, breath it... Exemplify it!

When we teach our children good manners... We also need to remind ourselves to be patient and to do it lovingly. We must understand just like everyone of us, children are also a work in progress. Don't expect them to get it right away. Our purpose is to teach and for them to learn. To follow respectfully and to remember to be obedient because it's the right thing to do, and not to coerce them forcefully because they might follow without truly understanding. We must also be consistent when we teach them that way they know that rules are rules. When raising kids, we parents have to be united in everything. There shouldn't be any good cop or bad cop. It only confuses the kids more and you take away the authority to be followed. In their heads, "I know I can sway my mom to agree with me and because I know that I will always ask the one who allows me." It's a lose lose situation! We have taught them nothing but how to manipulate us.

However, we parents are not perfect as well and sometimes we make wrong decisions too. Once we realize that we need to correct our decisions let it be known to our children that we will do so on our own time. They should learn to wait patiently and learn to respect authority.

Why do we need to teach our children good manners? Simply because parents who teach their kids to be courteous have better relationships with their children. They learn to follow rules, they're more considerate of others, they're humble, respectful and are happy, confident people. That is why it is so important to be present in their lives. Our roles as parents are so crucial. Who will they look up to if they have nobody there for them? Most parents wonder why they have disrespectful children when they have done nothing but give them everything. You can give them everything but everything to them is spending time with you! "Don't replace presence with presents." Build on your relationship with them!

Children are naturally curious and never running out of questions. Don't be lazy in telling them why you're teaching them... I always tell my children that, parents who teach their children well, love their children well. They know that everything mama and papa teaches them is for their own good even when we discipline them they know it is all out of love. When we take the time to talk to them they also learn to listen and we in turn learn to understand what's in their hearts and minds. As parents we need to make them feel that their thoughts and feelings matter to us the most.

 Do everything together with your children. Teach them how it's done and make it fun. We want them to remember what is being taught to them and not to be scared of us. If they make a mistake, take it as an opportunity to remind and correct them. On the other hand, when they do something right, praise them for it! It will encourage them all the more. The best reward a parent can give a child is not material things, but it is showing that their good efforts are seen and appreciated.

Help each other out by practicing it consistently. Practice it until it becomes a force of habit. Be creative with your kids and find out what works for them.

I have observed several times that children who have good manners are happily welcomed to other people's homes. Their demeanor is confident without being arrogant, self-assured and secured with themselves.

Our kids are far from being perfect and I can't promise that we won't have misunderstandings. But just like every relationship that is built with a strong foundation it doesn't easily crumble. Kids are so much smarter than what we think they are. Later on, our "crazy" stories that we make up just so that they will follow us will no longer work and then we will realize they really never learned anything from it. Those are all momentary solutions with no real lessons. They are far better and important than that. We have to take the time to sit them down, or lay down beside them in bed and talk to them about how we feel and explain to them our intentions. Guide them and remember to do it lovingly, kindly and be truthful to them always.

Don't ever neglect teaching your children proper manners. It goes hand in hand with discipline and consistently teaching them God's Word. As it says in the Bible, Deuteronomy 11:19 states: "Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up."

Children remember more when they're taught out of love, even without your watchful eyes they stay obedient.

"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 6:4

By Cheska & Doug Kramer 08 Jul, 2016

Dearest Baby Kendra,


Just a week ago you celebrated your birthday! You're now 7 years old! How time flies by... A whole year is not enough to kiss and hug you and enjoy all the wonderful things you're made of. How I wish the years are much longer, that way we can hold on to you for a much longer time.

Just in case you forget later on, we celebrated your birthday with a bang! We celebrated not just your 7th birthday but also the day you brought meaning and a deeper sense of what love really means to mama and papa. Your birth is a reflection of mama and papas love for each other.

Kendra girl, you should know that love is not celebrated only once, but everyday! Just like the time we give you. Love is not based on material things but it's a feeling that is accompanied by words and action.

Don't forget the special celebrations we have together. But also cherish what you have everyday with your family. Never ever forget that love is spending time together, saying it everyday, being gentle and kind, respectful, loyal, honest and truthful and most of all being obedient. Love should be consistent.

Sometimes love also requires discipline. These are the things you learn along the little humps and bumps we come across together. Parents need to teach their children so that they learn to follow rules... Rules and values that will come in handy as you go on with your life. Mamas and papas that teach their children well, love their children well too. May you always be appreciative of the things we teach you. May you keep them close to your heart and follow what is right and good, because it is also pleasing in God's eyes.

One day you will forget all your dolls and toys. Maybe you'll pass them on to someone who might want them more or even donate them to an orphanage. There will be one thing though that will never get old and you will never get tired of, it's hearing your parents and siblings telling you how much we love you, and each other. Our daily devotion nights, praying out loud for each other, all the hugs and kisses, your dates with papa, mama preparing your clothes for those dates, playtime in the playroom, eating together as a family, all the life and Biblical lessons we teach the three of you and all the spectacular moments you have kept in your memory bank. Those are the things that matter the most Kendra. Those are the experiences that will build your character and you will hold on to. One day when you have children of your own those are the same things you will teach them.

So listen patiently, understand with love, and treasure these moments that we would like to impart with you. None of these things will harm you, instead it's meant to teach, and protect you. Sometimes we might not agree, but remember that papa and mama love you so much and only want what's best for you. All the things we teach you are really all for you... Only the best for you!

We love you Kendra... We made you out of love, even before you were born you were already loved, and everyday since the day you were born the love we have for you has never dimmed it only gets brighter at each passing day.

What can be more extravagant than your celebration? It's the love that is felt in your home... That is something that is celebrated everyday. Love that is always present is priceless!

By Cheska & Doug Kramer 01 Jul, 2016

Every family starts and ends with the mother and father. RESPONSIBLE PARENTING BEGINS BY WORKING TO STAY TOGETHER AND BEING THERE FOR YOUR CHILDREN EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. VALUES/HABITS ARE NOT JUST TAUGHT, THEY ARE CAUGHT. Your children are a reflection of you, whatever you do, they do. Your actions are what your kids will imitate. We are naturally visual people, it's one thing to hear and another thing when we see someone modeling it. We, the parents, are the examples our children are meant to follow, not the friends. So be sure to influence them positively in every way you can.
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